What’s The Fascination With Natural Hair and People Wanting to Touch it?

So natural hair has been getting more and more attention than usual recently. The increase of black women opting for their natural non-processed hair has sky rocketed and blogs, news sites, magazines and TV are jumping on board reporting the not so new phenomenon. In growing numbers, natural hair is being embraced by more black women despite their lack of experience with natural hair, as relaxed hair became the usual route in the black community.

With the rise of curls, kinks and coils, the expected curiosity and admiration from others (mainly white women) brings on a new battle. The line between admiring “exotic” hair from afar and actually wanting to touch it can come off demeaning and down right disrespectful. Everyone wants what they can’t have and that’s okay, but basically petting my hair is unacceptable. CNN.com ran an interesting story on America’s new age fascination with natural hair. Check it.

Would you let someone touch your hair?

- Tunisa Z. Wilson

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  • Calzone

    I agree; it is unacceptable to touch (or ask to touch!) a stranger's hair. It's embarrassing for me, a white woman, to read that any white woman or man would ask a black woman if it's okay to touch their hair. It is silly and juvenile!
    I can give one caveat to the whole touchy-hair thang and that is in a country where you are the extreme minority (you're white in Africa or you're black in Iceland) then, if a local wants to touch the hair, okay, touch it and get over it.
    When I visited San Antonio with my infant daughter, the locals all wanted to touch her. Apparently in Mexican culture it's good luck to touch a baby. Unfortunately, I can't point to any such anglo-saxon traditions that might explain the bizarre phenomenon of white folk asking to touch black hair.